Dating 20 year old
I think our culture doesn't aid in successful monogamy. I feel relationships are such a sacred spiritual path...are such accurate mirrors of each other and this can show us things we need to learn....scary sometimes, but gorgeous. You could show him the ropes in the sexual manner, but if you think about the long run -- when will he be ready to have children?
I can't believe the ways I've learned the things I know about mself. Back in the day, people married for life as teenagers.I find his age of 19 to be more of a concern than the age difference.If he were 30 and you 49, then he would be an adult with likely enough life experiences, personally and professionally, to know what he wants in a life partner. I would enjoy the moment with him as he is with you.The one problem with big data is that it removes the human element – and dating is very much about human connection. I think the attraction to 20 year olds is in large part biological.But the same way I try to lay out best practices for dating and relationships while allowing for many exceptions to the rules, I think we’d all be well served to pay attention to how people really act when no one’s looking instead of taking their word for it. Men are attracted to women who are at their most fertile.Instead of the female curve, which suggests that 34-year-old women like 34-year-old men, men find 20 year-old women most physically appealing, no matter how old they were. To tell men NOT to feel this way would be akin to telling them not to breathe.
Now, I don’t always agree with all of the conclusions that Rudder draws from his Ok Cupid data.
Based on my experiences and being a female I am voting that the response above seems like the best answer.
Between 16-18 and 19 are really significant transitioning years with significantly different major life changes going on ex.
Once upon a time, he was trying to illustrate why free dating sites were “better” than paid dating sites, but it was clear that he was advocating for Ok Cupid.
Regardless, big data is often very revealing about people’s real preferences – height, weight, age, income, sex, and so on.
We got along great and the age difference wasn't an issue for either of us. Thanks for the advice I feel ready for a lifelong, committed relationship. We are both quite spiritual in a very non religious way and work together in that way quite beautifully.