Dating a pothead girl
According to Drug Abuse.org, research demonstrates that marijuana has the potential to cause problems in daily life or make a person’s existing problems worse.Heavy marijuana users generally report lower life satisfaction, poorer mental and physical health, relationship problems, and less academic and career success compared to their peers who came from similar backgrounds.
Men who smoke marijuana frequently have significantly less seminal fluid, a lower total sperm count and their sperm behave abnormally, all of which could affect fertility. I wanted to be the cool girlfriend who never took him away from his friends, who never judged or suffocated him. I realized after speaking up about how much I hated him smoking that I knew I couldn’t handle it anymore.It was unnecessary stress that I didn’t want or need.Maybe it’s too much of me to ask for a guy, especially in this city, to not do drugs, but it’s something that I know I can never go back to.He took me leaving as another sign of failure, I also counseled him through our break-up, yeah I know BIG FUCKING MISTAKE.He wouldn’t let me leave because he saw me as the best part of his life, which wasn’t as romantic as it sounds.It also didn’t help that ALL of Nick’s friends smoked or dealt. Apparently it felt better to him, because heaven forbid it’s just me that makes him feel good, nope, weed had to be added into the mix.
He was one of the only people that had a car amongst his friends, so whenever they wanted to smoke, they’d all hop in, roll the windows up and hot box his car. One of the things I really loved about Nick is that he wanted to be a dad.
He had his med-card and we were in community college, which felt like an extension of high school.
We weren’t in a super serious time of our lives, but I was serious about him, for a while.
I’d rather be happily single than deal with a guy who would rather take rips on a bong than hangout with me, completely sober.
I can’t talk about what it’s like to date an addict. I can’t imagine wanting someone who wanted something else more then you, and that something else not even being human.
Something he was good at, something that he couldn’t fail at, was packing a bowl and ripping a bong till it was all gone.